Postcards For Ants, Lorraine Loots
"That is the simple secret of happiness. Whatever you are doing, don’t let past move your mind; don’t let future disturb you. Because the past is no more, and the future is not yet. To live in the memories, to live in the imagination, is to live in the non-existential. And when you are living in the non-existential, you are missing that which is existential. Naturally you will be miserable, because you will miss your whole life."- Osho (via psych-facts)
Knowing what I deserve and giving myself just that. Staying away from toxic people who don’t do anything for me. I thought about it, what are friends for? They’re there to help you out and vice versa. Real shit, you gotta have standards of how a friend should be. You should benefit from each other. That’s what it comes down to now, you help me, I help you. I help you, you don’t help me, fuck you. Simple. My perspective changed and I can’t be too lenient on who I keep in my life cause time is precious and I’m not going to waste mine on any one who can’t lift me up the same way I do with them. I need more inspiring and motivational people in my life. Someone who will listen, to talk to, who will understand. Give me options and advice though I might not take it. I give people so many chances but it’s okay i dont really care for friends as i used to cause I’m starting to hate attachment. You really just do learn people come and go, as lessons or blessings. It helped me to depend on myself. No more irrelevant bs in my life, I will not allow it. It’s highly unacceptable.